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It’s Not Me
Written on Tuesday, April 22nd, 2008 @ 8:59am

I woke up this morning to find a message in my MySpace inbox forwarded from Megan. It was an apology letter. She attempted to justify everything she said about my family because apparently we diss on her mom. I don’t know where she is coming up with that because I’ve noticed at family gatherings we try to avoid talking about her mother, if anything.

But I need you to understand something. I bet you felt really hurt by everything I threw at you, but I am hurt every time you or Nana or Aunt Karin or anyone else on my dad’s side says something to the effect of “Diane/your mom is a bitch” or “I always hated your mom/Diane.”

Tell me how I’m suppose to sympathize with her? She’s making it sound like every family gathering is an outright bitch-attack on her mother. Sorry, her mom ain’t that important. And if she overheard a phone conversation or any conversation that wasn’t directed towards her, well I have no sympathy for eavesdroppers.

I don’t know how to feel about this letter. While she didn’t attack me personally, she still hurt other members of my family. She needs to apologize to my mother, my grandparents, and most importantly Nana.

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Carolynne commented on Wednesday, April 23rd, 2008, 4:23 pm

OH that sounds so awful. I am sorry that you are having so much trouble and grief with Megan. I have no idea what to say. I just hope that things work out and all apologies that need to be said are indeed said. :\

Diane commented on Thursday, April 24th, 2008, 6:19 am

Oh…I missed the previous post.
*Go back and read*

Actually the issue is not that serious but Megan seems to make thing big now. If she means as she apologizes, everything would be done. But…I don’t know…but it’s better that this would end very soon. I don’t want to see you get so much headache :-) Cheer! There’s always lots of problems in relationship.

Michelle commented on Friday, April 25th, 2008, 7:26 am

I have never seen the logic in justifying your own actions based on someone else’s. It’s that whole “if they jumped off a bridge would you” thing again! Even if you were saying bad things about her mom, that wouldn’t justify her to make the comments she made! She isn’t taking responsibility for her own actions, it seems.

By the way, I’m working on that Mediashelf thing. I’ve had the same problem you’re having, but I don’t have time to tomorrow to really look into it. Hopefully I’ll be sending you an email tomorrow afternoon about my findings. :)

Michelle commented on Friday, April 25th, 2008, 7:27 am

*Er, I don’t have time until tomorrow.

Holly commented on Friday, April 25th, 2008, 4:01 pm

o.O Things just get weirder!
I wouldn’t know what to make of that either, but hopefully it’s a step in the right direction. Maybe…?

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