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Written on Tuesday, July 29th, 2008 @ 9:04pm Written on Tuesday, July 29th, 2008 @ 9:04pmSometimes I feel like because I moved on from certain activities, hobbies, interests, etc. that people want nothing to do with me anymore. I felt this way when I left band senior year in high school, and now I’m feeling this way because I never came back to Sugarloaf to be a counselor. I don’t know, maybe its my oversensitivity getting the better of me, but I’ve had this feeling like something wasn’t right looming over me since Saturday.
Out of all my friends I ran into on Saturday, only one gave me the strong impression she was less than thrilled to see me. Now, we haven’t spoken much since high school, mainly because she’s gone off to do more of the band thing while I’ve done the life-in-general thing. Nevertheless, we’ve been on good terms and she was a maybe for my Housewarming party this year. In other words I haven’t had a clue as to whether she could be annoyed with me for whatever reason. I left her a message on Facebook to see if we were okay to which she hasn’t responded. It has me feeling a bit low. We used to do a lot together. But now? Idk.
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That IS weird, I’d be confused too, and kind of upset. I hope you hear back from her and find out what’s going on!
Is is a fact of life that people can grow apart for whatever reasons. I’m sorry to hear this.
It’s pretty lame for her to treat you like that. If she’s smart at all she’ll tell you what her deal is or she’s just not worth being friends with, in my opinion. Remembering your post (that I just commented on yesterday) about how you wish people would just be honest with you about things…you so deserve that, at least. I can’t think of anything you could have done to have her react like that…I hope she responds to your message soon…
That is pretty weird, especially if you’ve not seen each other much.
Maybe ask her what’s going on if you see her again?
That does sound pretty upsetting. Especially since you don’t know what the heck is going on. I have had that happen to me. But the thing is…people move on to different things and sometimes it’s just hard to stay in contact. Things in common change. I only wish that I was still in contact with some people…but we just don’t see eye to eye. Oh well, it’s really no reason to be snobby and mean to you. I hope she replies to your facebook message.