Comments on: She is Gone http://darth-cena.net/2009/04/08/she-is-gone/ She's dirty, she's flirty, and oh-so-nerdy! Sun, 05 Sep 2010 02:20:38 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Cristina http://darth-cena.net/2009/04/08/she-is-gone/comment-page-1/#comment-2836 Cristina Thu, 09 Apr 2009 17:36:10 +0000 http://darth-cena.net/?p=1675#comment-2836 As soon as she left we went to Home Depot and got all new locks for the house. We moved all her stuff out to the garage so she wouldn't have to go in the house. It was her day off hence why she spent all day looking for someplace to go. As soon as she left we went to Home Depot and got all new locks for the house. We moved all her stuff out to the garage so she wouldn’t have to go in the house. It was her day off hence why she spent all day looking for someplace to go.

]]> By: Hev http://darth-cena.net/2009/04/08/she-is-gone/comment-page-1/#comment-2835 Hev Thu, 09 Apr 2009 17:18:12 +0000 http://darth-cena.net/?p=1675#comment-2835 You did the right thing. Heck, I would have had her stuff sitting outside & the locks changed. Well, her dog would have been in the house, cause I couldn't do that to an animal, but that is me. But you did the right thing. You are a wonderful friend. You did the right thing. Heck, I would have had her stuff sitting outside & the locks changed. Well, her dog would have been in the house, cause I couldn’t do that to an animal, but that is me. But you did the right thing. You are a wonderful friend.

]]> By: Melly http://darth-cena.net/2009/04/08/she-is-gone/comment-page-1/#comment-2833 Melly Thu, 09 Apr 2009 13:01:46 +0000 http://darth-cena.net/?p=1675#comment-2833 DITTO WHAT MEGGAN SAID. You are a fab friend, your generosity speaks for itself. I'm also really proud of you as well, for being so strong and not letting her win in the end. <3 DITTO WHAT MEGGAN SAID. You are a fab friend, your generosity speaks for itself. I’m also really proud of you as well, for being so strong and not letting her win in the end. <3

]]> By: Cristina http://darth-cena.net/2009/04/08/she-is-gone/comment-page-1/#comment-2832 Cristina Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:27:57 +0000 http://darth-cena.net/?p=1675#comment-2832 I'm glad I decided to stick to my guns too, but boy was it hard. :( I’m glad I decided to stick to my guns too, but boy was it hard. :(

]]> By: Cristina http://darth-cena.net/2009/04/08/she-is-gone/comment-page-1/#comment-2831 Cristina Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:27:25 +0000 http://darth-cena.net/?p=1675#comment-2831 Thanks Nikki, I appreciate it. <3 Thanks Nikki, I appreciate it. <3

]]> By: Cristina http://darth-cena.net/2009/04/08/she-is-gone/comment-page-1/#comment-2830 Cristina Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:26:12 +0000 http://darth-cena.net/?p=1675#comment-2830 Really, thanks for that. I was reading it in class :lol: and kept going, "Yeah! YEAH!" It really helped reassure me. I had a hard time dealing after she left yesterday because I felt like I had done a bad thing kicking her out. As that article said, "YOU are not kicking them out onto the street, anymore than the Safeway is denying me food because I chose to spend it all on new clothes and a car I couldn't afford." Really, thanks for that. I was reading it in class :lol: and kept going, “Yeah! YEAH!” It really helped reassure me. I had a hard time dealing after she left yesterday because I felt like I had done a bad thing kicking her out. As that article said, “YOU are not kicking them out onto the street, anymore than the Safeway is denying me food because I chose to spend it all on new clothes and a car I couldn’t afford.”

]]> By: Cristina http://darth-cena.net/2009/04/08/she-is-gone/comment-page-1/#comment-2829 Cristina Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:21:46 +0000 http://darth-cena.net/?p=1675#comment-2829 Yeah... I didn't want to make things awkward between you guys and her, but yeah it hasn't been good. I should've just kept it to Joshua and I. :| Yeah… I didn’t want to make things awkward between you guys and her, but yeah it hasn’t been good. I should’ve just kept it to Joshua and I. :|

]]> By: Danae http://darth-cena.net/2009/04/08/she-is-gone/comment-page-1/#comment-2828 Danae Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:17:36 +0000 http://darth-cena.net/?p=1675#comment-2828 Wow. Had no idea this was all going on. I've had a few bad roomie situations with friends, so I know how hard it can be! Time and distance will be good for you guys. And hopefully this bout of tough love will help her move on with her life. :-) Wow. Had no idea this was all going on. I’ve had a few bad roomie situations with friends, so I know how hard it can be! Time and distance will be good for you guys. And hopefully this bout of tough love will help her move on with her life. :-)

]]> By: Meggan http://darth-cena.net/2009/04/08/she-is-gone/comment-page-1/#comment-2826 Meggan Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:12:39 +0000 http://darth-cena.net/?p=1675#comment-2826 I'll post the link I sent you over here too, just in case someone else is reading this and needs encouragement: <a href="http://ask.metafilter.com/118916/How-do-I-assess-my-role-and-responsibility-for-housing-an-unemployed-person-in-these-economic-bad-times#1703094" rel="nofollow">Don't feel guilty! Here's why.</a> I think you're incredibly generous for even taking her in in the first place, and I am so proud of you for finally putting your foot down and refusing to be walked all over when it got really bad. I’ll post the link I sent you over here too, just in case someone else is reading this and needs encouragement: Don’t feel guilty! Here’s why.

I think you’re incredibly generous for even taking her in in the first place, and I am so proud of you for finally putting your foot down and refusing to be walked all over when it got really bad.

]]> By: Holly http://darth-cena.net/2009/04/08/she-is-gone/comment-page-1/#comment-2825 Holly Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:19:36 +0000 http://darth-cena.net/?p=1675#comment-2825 I'm glad you finally asked her to leave and take responsibility for herself. I can see why you feel guilty, but at the same time, you shouldn't have to, because you did the right thing. :) I’m glad you finally asked her to leave and take responsibility for herself.
I can see why you feel guilty, but at the same time, you shouldn’t have to, because you did the right thing. :)

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